The generic file output of the file field is pretty close to what you are asking. It creates a link with a icon showing the file type and links to the file (download, unless the browser understands the file, like an image would be displayed in the browser instead of being downloaded)
You could with theming/css alter the appearance if you so please.
If you want force download, you have to modify the headers sent to the browser. I don't know any module which will offer this for you.