After much consideration and a ton of tries I decided to go with cookies,I added this to my script file from
http://drupal.org/node/1454486
Drupal.behaviors.quicktabsHistory = {
attach: function(context, settings) {
// enable accordion memory
$('.quick-accordion', context).each(function() {
var id = $(this).attr('id');
var accordion = $.cookie(id);
if (accordion != '') {
$(this).find('h3 a[href="' + accordion + '"]').click();
}
$(this).find('h3 a').click(function() {
$.cookie(id, $(this).attr('href'));
});
});
// enable tab memory
$('.quicktabs-wrapper', context).each(function() {
var id = $(this).attr('id');
var tab = $.cookie(id);
if (tab != '') {
$(this).find('ul.quicktabs-tabs a#' + tab).click();
}
$(this).find('ul.quicktabs-tabs a').click(function() {
$.cookie(id, $(this).attr('id'));
});
});
}
};
thanks for your time and efforts